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Prof. Dr. Murat Tuncer tips from nanny to working mothers: “Proper diction, a reference from someone familiar with him and your child to be quiet, you are correct caregivers find the most basic indicators.”
Prof. Dr. Murat Tuncer, perfect for families with parents who want to be prepared ‘Guide to Child Health’ in his book, he answered questions from parents ‘right nanny’ told to find their way. Prof. Tuncer, the right caregiver for your child to find useful tips and tricks that the 10 were listed as follows:
Get EVEN TALK
When selecting a caregiver must ensure that the proper diction. Because, especially babies, around the seventh month onwards begins to learn the spoken language and memory to record everything about it. If they are bad people with speech, since the first word in your baby can see the same mistakes. Diction that is important!
Let authoritarian BE
The most important features you need to call in a sitter, against children is really loving. Harsh warnings against children, the future may be deprived of her affection. The baby sitter because the number of exhibiting autistic symptoms are not rare at all. Punish the nurse as a blow to the genitals of children, serious problems may occur in adolescence.
REFERENCES get the FOUND
When you hire a sitter, always look for a reference to someone you know very well. Consult your decision whether to recommend to the person.
Do not leave you alone
Your sitter is just starting to work, the time at home with him. Observe your child’s interest and working style.
To CLEAN TEACH
Teach your nanny, your own principles. Especially in baby care, cleaning, and do not in the slightest concession on this issue very carefully remind you.
Your BABY PROBLEMS
Babies’ feelings and reactions of trust. Did not want to be with, not with movements like a babysitter means, do not submit it.
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After leaving the house occasionally without any notice to check your baby to come. And caregivers encounter when you leave, the baby had to observe her behavior.
When you talk to the doctor, baby sitter with you when you get your inspection. If you are interested in the baby sitter is coming from within your own, you distract him not to cry while talking to a doctor if they are positive indicators. If a careless attitude, we talk with your caregiver.
HEALTH REPORT BELOW
Who will work closely with your child from hepatitis A and B status and ask them to tests for tuberculosis parasites. If not then surely inspire all vaccines.
You LARGE FAMILY HAS BEEN
No matter how good your babysitter, your baby in the family since no one left alone I do not recommend it. With grandmothers or grandmother or caregiver must be accompanied by a period. Exercise should allow the baby.
CREATE TRUST DEFICIT is the separation of ANNE BABY
MAXIMUM of ONE WEEK
Do not stray too far from a week in addition to your baby. To compensate for the lack of living up to both the mother is very difficult. Except as required, such as death, the two lived more than a week until the baby to leave without their mothers, persistent lack of trust may be, the mother can cause problems such as fear of loss. TWO
Two in a long pattern of differences may arise from the conversion. First, you will connect to excess and do not leave your side. Or we will punish you by acting as a stranger. In these two cases also required him to act with patience and as close as possible, and once again, do not live long separation.
If you MUST not care!
The most unhealthy behaviors, such as if nothing had happened to you is to act unconcerned. In this case, you are much more responsibility. To spend some time together as possible and try to be near him.
Differences may be due to business or vacation, would be appropriate to be limited to five days. If such separation is more than five days, you take your baby. Among those traveling with you, your children’s future as the sweet memories will remain.
As if the mandatory separation is planned for a long journey home after a few weeks ago to set up two computers to access, such as MSN or Skype, as a video inside the room with the baby talk. From home a few days later another of the same communication rate. By this baby, you will be perceived as a game away from you practice.
Be much in the social slot
To date, scientific studies, pre-school education was demonstrated to be very useful. Around the 5.3 slot is the most appropriate age. Age of toilet training in this period is completed, is appropriate. Even if you have some time carer for your child can receive support from the slot for socialization. Because of a children’s upper respiratory tract infections, even this increase is not an obstacle to education.